It’s really impossible to tell what a woman is looking for in a relationship with a man and all the guides out there that claim to hold the “secret” to what a woman wants is just full of sh*t, simply because people are unique and there’s really no rhyme or reason as to what makes someone attracted to you. This guide is therefore intended to provide strategies to narrow down your prospects and help you find someone who is also looking for you.
What I mean by “scattershot” is to not stick with one type of person. Relatively speaking, it’s a lot easier to hit a target with a shotgun or scatter gun than to hit a target with a single shot musket. Point being, you may be attracted to a certain type of woman, but she may not necessarily be attracted to you, so it’s often better to “scattershot” your attempts at finding the perfect relationship by dating more women. This works well in your favor because it also gives you more options and it can also help you narrow down your selection. This may be easier said than done for some people and for others it may be easier done than said, but the way you approach this is to get off your ass simply start asking. The old saying goes “opposites attract” and the counter to that is “two of a kind makes a good find”. The goal is to find whatever floats your boat, but make sure you not only keep an open mind but also stay focused on what you want!
Ask the right questions
The simple question whenever you meet a woman you are attracted to: “do you have a man”? If she says yes, then that’s your cue to move onto the next target. Now you can feel free to rephrase this in any way you’d like. Other variations include “Do you have a boyfriend?” “Do you have a husband?” Do you have a significant other?” or anything clever you can think of to extract this information from her. How you ask it is entirely up to you and you should not feel awkward about it since you are asking an honest question. It’s better to extract this information from her right away instead of beating around the bush, because the more time you waste, the longer this is going to take!
Make sure she is interested in you
You can tell if a woman is attracted to you. It’s easy. If she is attracted to you, then she will start to ask you questions (just make sure you provide the right answers). You will be able to tell right away whether or not she is interested in you by how excited she is with the conversation, but this can be a bit deceiving as some people are just naturally friendly. Assuming things are going well you should close in for the kill and ask her out on a date. You can do this by asking her: “Would you be interested in (fill in the blank) with me on (insert date)?” If she says yes, then she is interested. If she is really interested in you, then you won’t even need to ask her out on a date, because you can essentially turn the current moment into a date. How you do this is up to you and there is no real strategy to it other than mutual attraction. As long as she is having fun the moment you meet, then you have a good chance to actually winning her over. How fast you move is entirely up to you!